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If you do not adapt, if you do not learn, you will wither, you will die.

Saturday, November 7, 2015

Book Review “The Ten Golden Rules of Leadership”

Book Review “The Ten Golden Rules of Leadership”
Classical wisdom for modern leaders by Michael A. Soupios

Michael Soupios applies thoughts and practices from Greek philosophers to the field of leadership. I want to share eight of his ten rules - they are easy to write about yet challenging to live by when the going gets tough. May they invite you to reflect on and question as well as fine-tune your own leadership practices.

‘Know Thyself’ – Thales
Self-comprehension is a fundamental precondition for effective leadership, but you first have to overcome three hurdles:
1.    Society’s distractions that keep you from meaningful self-inquiry.
2.    Self-defense tendencies such as obscuring, distorting, and fictionalizing on behalf of a fabricated reality that fits your needs.
3.    Your tendency to seek out a maximum of pleasure (hedonistic principle), so why would you engage in painful and candid self-exploration and self-confrontation?
When your self-assurance becomes rash presumption, you turn from a valuable asset to a dangerous liability. If you take success for granted because of earlier success, complacency will follow. Success requires continuous effort and humility that acknowledges the possibility of defeat.

Office shows the person – Pittacus
The investment of power and authority in a person rapidly reveals their inner qualities. Power will reflect what no resume does: the person’s psychological disposition. Misuse of power can be a psychological deficiency: Power becomes a compensatory asset - a defense mechanism to counterbalance feelings of inadequacy and vulnerability. The abusive application of power (the need to control and dominate) becomes a way to attain a sense of security and confidence. Of the many potential shortcomings a leader can bring to an organization, arbitrary application of power is lethal: Criticizing, micromanaging, second-guessing, or bullying others creates a toxic and unproductive environment where people watch their backs and avoid risks.

Nurture community in the workplace – Plato
Community development and positive group sentiment are virtues that leaders must nurture by providing the right support and incentives. For this to happen, leaders have to conquer three obstacles and help their staff do the same: “Individualism” (I before We), a lack of willingness to critically self-assess and the myth of the lone, maverick, self-made genius.

Do not waste energy on things you cannot change – Aristophanes
Leaders must assume a posture of flexible response: Quick to take advantage of new opportunities and quick to discard practices that offer little prospect of benefit. Honest failure should be forgiven but intentional and hypocritical refusal to own up is very harmful. A leader’s capability to disregard a failing project and act accountable for failure is a reflection of his ego status and character. Do you have the confidence and courage to acknowledge your limitations and misjudgments?

Always embrace the truth – Antisthenes
Effective leaders embrace the truth, in every situation. They encourage candid criticism throughout the organization, they are skeptical of flattering appraisals, and they don’t allow authority to stand between them and the truth. According to Antisthenes there are only two people who will tell you the truth about yourself: An enemy who lost his temper and a friend who loves you dearly. Sadly, organizations are rarely inclined to examine their own premises. Instead they want employees to endorse the prevailing system of beliefs. Challenging a leader’s decisions is uncommon but you need to ask yourself: “What do I gain with yes-men who passively accept my predigested views?” I invite you to be among the few who have the maturity and emotional security to invite and accept criticism and dissenting views.

Let competition reveal talent – Hesiod
Knowledgeable employees can be hired yet bringing out their talent and aligning talent with organizational interests requires an environment that allows staff to compete with each other in a constructive way. Leaders want to select individuals in whom contest is likely to generate high levels of enthusiasm and creativity.

Live life by a higher code – Aristotle
Aristotle believed that leaders with high moral standards lead an unusually principled life with a dutiful commitment to personal virtue. Leaders need to earn the trust of their followers for everyone to thrive. This trust doesn’t happen by accident. You earn it not through the power and authority that was assigned to you but through your character and your personal conduct: You invite and value contrarians and don’t hold grudges. You assist those who are in need and don’t ask or expect something in return while remaining calm in the face of crisis.

Always evaluate information with a critical eye – the Skeptics

When you assess information please remember: What was conventional wisdom only yesterday may no longer be valid today. You must consider the circumstances that shaped the information and critically examine the means by which it is conveyed. You want to watch for hidden agendas or political objectives and suspend judgment. Make sure to develop a critical mindset that accepts nothing at face value. 

Lets close with Socrates: “The unexamined life is not worth living”.

Tuesday, October 13, 2015

Tackling Change Management Negativity


Change can be hard on people for many different reasons. To mention only a few: many people dislike the uncertainty that comes with change, they do not wish to let go off what they had and know, and they fear loss of status and competency. When preparing for and implementing change, leaders should be prepared for negativity from employees. Here are some tips to reframe, discuss, and redirect negativity in a constructive manner:

1.    Make sure to provide sufficient, timely, repeated, and clear information to decrease the chance of unnecessary uncertainty and confusion.
2.    Take time to address negativity one-on-one and face-to-face rather than sending an email. It’s the interaction during which you gain the best insight into what is bothering this particular person and therefore:
3.    Don’t assume you know the reason for the negativity. Refrain from premature conclusions and quick judgments. Ask questions to dive deeper into the thoughts and fears of the person.
4.    Avoid the trap of taking negativity personal. It’s simply tempting for employees to direct their fears and negativity towards a person, which can be their own manager or top management. This may show itself as casting blame and finger pointing but remember, the negativity is almost always a rejection of the process and an expression of fear and loss of control. 
5.    Ask the person: What is it that you fear and what is it that you need?
6.    Inquire what the person expects and needs from you specifically.
7.    Agree on clear actions, timelines and a mutual understanding of how you will know whether the needs of the person are being met.
8.    Be candid and clear about needs that can't be met or you believe to be unrealistic. 
9.    If there are barriers to direct and honest communication, address them and take measures to prevent them in the future.
10.Make sure to appreciate the candor, vulnerability, and transparency during the conversation.

Yes, all of this requires your time, energy, and focus, which I know are in short supply. Yes it takes patience and perseverance to tackle negativity. But remember, you don’t want to take short-cuts to alleviate tensions superficially or temporarily. Whatever you don’t tackle now and with care will haunt you later, multiplied by built up emotions and by interpretations that have gone wild.

Lets close this post with 20th century science philosopher Karl Popper:

“All life is problem solving”



Monday, September 28, 2015

Leaders, You don’t Just …


You don’t just need to know who you are and what you stand for,
You need to know how your values and actions are perceived by others.

You don’t just need to know the ‘why’ behind any organizational change,  
You need to know what (in) tangibles people are gaining and losing with the change.
           
You don’t just need to be a strong and determined leader who’s in control,
You need to know when to let others lead while taking a humble backseat yourself.

You don’t just need to be able to hold others accountable transparently and consistently,
You need to walk the talk, act accountable, and say “I made a mistake - I’m sorry.”

You don’t just need to have a ‘Leadership Philosophy’,
You need to show it in your decisions and actions, on a daily basis.

You don’t just need to continuously strengthen your Emotional Intelligence (EI),
You need to ask others to provide you with candid feedback and do an EI 360 assessment.

You don’t just need to take care of business and of people,
You need to take care of YOU first and last, in the right kind of way of course.

Key to it all: Mind the Gap and Bridge the Gap, whatever the gap is.




Friday, September 4, 2015

Recognition and engagement


Studies. Articles. Programs. We have plenty of it all on the topic, including very complicated ones. But recognition and engagement can be simple and easy. I’ll spare you the research and instead provide you with ideas to start or improve your recognition program. Apply the suggestions below and your employees will work more enthusiastically and effectively, their commitment, effort, quality, safety, absenteeism, and retention will improve, and as a result your customers will be more satisfied. I leave it up to your imagination what this can do to your growth and revenue.


Nine Recognition Premises
1.    People appreciate and need day-to-day recognition.
2.    People do not like to be taken for granted.
3.    People need to know how they add value and meaning.
4.    In many cultures, people crave individual credit.
5.    What motivates a person is a personal matter.
6.    You need to observe and listen to really learn about your employees.
7.    You want to measure and recognize what really matters.
8.    People need clear personal goals that are linked to organizational goals
9.    It is important to take cultural differences into account[1]


Nine Recognition Tools
1.    Practice common courtesy and respect, every day, with everyone.
2.    Find out what methods of appreciation appeal to your team members.
3.    Give meaningful feedback and acknowledge contributions openly.
4.    Encourage people to praise each other verbally or with notes.
5.    Provide professional and career development opportunities.
6.    Apply a performance-based rewards and recognition program.
7.    Develop a business excellence and a leadership award program.  
8.    Consider inventor recognition and a research achievers circle.
9.    Use employee engagement software that fits your industry and organization.


Final pitch
Acknowledge people in a way that is both meaningful and motivational, and do it on a regular basis, on the spot. Make it part of your leadership and enjoy the employee, customer, and organizational benefits.



[1] Two examples: Japan has a collectivist culture where workers generally don’t want to stand out from the group and in the Middle East managers are often viewed as teachers two name just two.

Tuesday, June 30, 2015

Who doesn’t …


Who doesn’t … want to be successful?
Who doesn’t … want others to act accountable?
Who doesn’t … want their team to function as a true team?

I like to share some nuggets from the workshop Holding Others Accountable that I attended, with all credits, of course, to the Accountability Training & Culture Change Company Partners in Leadership:

à Experiences create beliefs, beliefs influence actions, and actions produce results. Two good questions to ask in this context are:
1.    What experiences am I creating with my leadership?
2.    How often do I intervene at the crucial level of beliefs?

à If you want to succeed in holding others accountable, you need clear and agreed upon expectations and a continuous process to check in on the progress as opposed to a one-time check when the deadline has arrived.

à Holding others accountable starts with identifying a key expectation for each person. A key expectation is an expectation where you have decided that NOT delivering is NOT an option. Every key expectation, whether for yourself or others, needs to be framable, obtainable, repeatable, and measurable (similar to the SMART-approach to goals).

à Whatever it is you expect of someone, make sure to have a Why-What-When meeting, with a word of warning not to skip the WHY (see also Simon Sinek’s TED talk on the importance of the ‘why’: http://www.ted.com/talks/simon_sinek_how_great_leaders_inspire_action?language=en)

à Don’t just ask for buy-in from people. Let them rate on a scale from 1 to 10 how aligned they are with whatever key expectation you set. This way you allow for a more nuanced answer than just yes or no and you make it easier to voice concerns, since ‘7’ can be considered a reasonable score while it opens up the conversation about how to improve: “What would it take for you to move from a 7 to a 10?”

à If someone is NOT making the progress you expect and need them to make, have a LIFT Conversation:
Listen for obstacles
Identify obstacles the person can influence
Facilitate the Solve It Question
Test for movement towards the expectation

There was so much more to this workshop, and there is so much more to accountability. Another great resource on the topic is the book Question Behind the Question by John G. Miller.

I ask you again, Who Doesn’t …? Let me ask you another question: What is keeping you from holding yourself and from holding others accountable?

Thursday, May 14, 2015

Wanna get it right? #Leadership

There are many things that strong leaders believe, think and do. Below you find some that I found to be true in my 28 year consulting, coaching, and workshop practice in Europe and the U.S. With gratitude for the many hundreds of clients who taught me what strong leadership looks like.

1. Strong leaders don’t feel the need to have all the answers, to know it all, to be the smartest in the room. They do not feel the need to be the super hero. They DO collect the smartest people for their teams, they DO ask all the right (and often less obvious) questions and they DO honor people who are smart and choose smart, and they are great at connecting dots where others can not. Strong leaders know they can’t do it alone.


2. Strong leaders are excellent active listeners, focusing in the here-and-now on what is being said and what is being communicated in other ways than with words. And if they DO talk, they are brief, clear, consistent, truthful. If they DO talk they make abundant use of stories to share their vision and experiences and to engage their people and connect with their hearts.

3. Strong leaders act with integrity and demonstrate that it is safe to share not just success stories but also misjudgments, failure, and doubts. They keep important conversations in the room. Because they can be trusted and are perceived to be honest and fair, they make water cooler conversations redundant.

4. Strong leaders welcome dissidents, devils advocates, “against the grain” thinkers, and people who challenge them otherwise, because they know they need this kind of thinking and these types of conversations to prevent self-deception, confirmation bias, tunnel vision, and all that other horrible stuff that prevents new ideas, unusual solutions, and fresh perspectives to emerge. They know they/their ideas don’t need to be liked all the time as long as they're respected and seen as acting with integrity.

5. Strong leaders know how to combine confidence and presence with humility and gratitude, which for many is a difficult balancing act. The Harvard Business Review Daily Stat on March 6, 2015 reported the following: “Highly regarded CEOs are nearly 6 times more likely than less highly regarded chief executives to be described as “humble” (34% versus 6%), according to a survey of more than 1,750 executives in 19 markets worldwide. Yet only about a quarter of the survey’s respondents say the description fits their own CEOs. The research, sponsored by public relations firm Weber Shandwick, also shows that nearly half of a company’s corporate reputation and market value is attributable to its CEO’s reputation.” Leslie Gaines-Ross writes on HBR.org


In what areas can you strengthen your leadership?